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The Rotary E-Club of Canada One
For the week beginning January 2, 2023
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to this week's meeting of
The Rotary E-Club of Canada One
For the week beginning January 2, 2023
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Complete the form for a make-up!
Please leave a donation to assist our club to do Rotary's good works!
Greeter this week
Rotarian Nance
Inspirational moment
Rotarian Nance
Happy New Year! Continue to Imagine Rotary!
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“Because my mom stayed the night at the house, I had the opportunity to take my 8-year-old to school without her siblings. I whispered to her, ‘If we get ready quick and with a good attitude, we’ll stop at the donut shop.’
But as she got dressed, her shirt didn’t fit right. Her pants annoyed her. The house was too cold. Her hair hurt when it was combed.
She started to get angry. Even when I reminded her she was risking losing her donut she kept getting angrier and angrier. Then it just unraveled and, ‘THIS WAS THE WORST MORNING OF HER LIIIIIIFE!’
I had to pause. I didn’t understand. I tried to reason. Then I said, ‘NO DONUT!’
In the next 10 minutes, as I silently got my coffee and found my own clothes, I saw myself in my daughter’s actions.
I too have sensory overload. Static? My arch nemesis. Tight-fitting clothes? Shoot me. Bloated and my waistband is digging into my stomach? WORST DAY EVER!
I’m almost 37 years into this game and I’ve learned ways to cope (usually).
I also know I too have had anger run away from me. As an adult I’ve said in my head, ‘Stop acting this way, Mary,’ while unable to get in front of the anger that snowballed ahead of me.
So when we got in the car (after she slammed the door and snarled) I said the following…
‘The way you’ve treated me this morning is mean, unfair, and not okay, but I’ve been there too. When I was growing up, if we spoke like that to our parents it was met with more anger, punishment, loss, and sometimes hostility. I think I just needed someone to be nice to me.
So, even though you’ve been mean to me, I’m going to be nice to you. I’m going to take you for that donut. I love you very much, even when you have big emotions.’
She burst into tears. I felt the anger move over and make way for the sadness. Then she said, ‘I’m so sorry I was mean to you,’ and we got our donut.
As she walked into school with a smile on her face, I thought, ‘This seems right.’
I want to do more of this. I want to be nice to my kids even on hard days. Maybe, just maybe, kindness will beget kindness.”
Credit: My Sunshine Birth Services - Mary Duke
Let’s Spread the Kindness
But as she got dressed, her shirt didn’t fit right. Her pants annoyed her. The house was too cold. Her hair hurt when it was combed.
She started to get angry. Even when I reminded her she was risking losing her donut she kept getting angrier and angrier. Then it just unraveled and, ‘THIS WAS THE WORST MORNING OF HER LIIIIIIFE!’
I had to pause. I didn’t understand. I tried to reason. Then I said, ‘NO DONUT!’
In the next 10 minutes, as I silently got my coffee and found my own clothes, I saw myself in my daughter’s actions.
I too have sensory overload. Static? My arch nemesis. Tight-fitting clothes? Shoot me. Bloated and my waistband is digging into my stomach? WORST DAY EVER!
I’m almost 37 years into this game and I’ve learned ways to cope (usually).
I also know I too have had anger run away from me. As an adult I’ve said in my head, ‘Stop acting this way, Mary,’ while unable to get in front of the anger that snowballed ahead of me.
So when we got in the car (after she slammed the door and snarled) I said the following…
‘The way you’ve treated me this morning is mean, unfair, and not okay, but I’ve been there too. When I was growing up, if we spoke like that to our parents it was met with more anger, punishment, loss, and sometimes hostility. I think I just needed someone to be nice to me.
So, even though you’ve been mean to me, I’m going to be nice to you. I’m going to take you for that donut. I love you very much, even when you have big emotions.’
She burst into tears. I felt the anger move over and make way for the sadness. Then she said, ‘I’m so sorry I was mean to you,’ and we got our donut.
As she walked into school with a smile on her face, I thought, ‘This seems right.’
I want to do more of this. I want to be nice to my kids even on hard days. Maybe, just maybe, kindness will beget kindness.”
Credit: My Sunshine Birth Services - Mary Duke
Let’s Spread the Kindness
Canadiana
An oldie but a goodie – So Proud to be Canadian!
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Comments from our guests and members
Members and guests attending our weekly meetings are very important to us. Based on your comments we are able to produce many more educational, inspiring, and entertaining weekly meetings.
Following are some of the comments we have received. Would you please send us your comments?
November 10. The Code Talker video and the NCD video were both learning experiences for me. This is why I love our meetings. I also believe Rotarians live The 4 Agreements.
-- Sharon Blaker, E-Club of Canada One, District 5370
November 13. Great story about the Canadian Cree code breakers and the Carmen medley was a nice interlude.
-- David Werrett, E-Club of Canada One, District 5370
November 14. Loved the videos on recycled fashion. It is so inspirational to see how one person’s idea can save our planet. The video on the Solvatten solar safe water also very inspirational to help people have safe drinking water.
-- Nance MacLeod, E-Club of Canada One, District 5370
November 13. Thank you to Neil and Kitt for their generous food bank $ donations! I learned something new about the Cree Code Talker through the articles and video. I also learned how much oysters filter water, which is something I didn't realize. The new member's video was inventive and made a point.
-- Brenda Race, E-Club of Canada One, District 5370
The Cop and the Ex-Criminal. I enjoyed the Speaking Book, Giving Tuesday, November 29, Outdoor Ice Tennis, and future fashion.
-- Mark Hall, Rotary Club of Canmore, District 5360
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Humour
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New members' corner
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Rotary minute
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Food for thought
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Food Insecurity for thought
Updated Dec. 26, 2022 5:48 p.m. AST
Published Dec. 26, 2022 5:45 p.m. AST
Contributed by Rotarian Brenda
As the holiday season wraps up, some of these groups are encouraging Canadians to advocate for systemic change to help lift people out of poverty, adding that increasing food bank capacity is not a long-term solution, as food insecurity is linked to overarching issues like income inequality and housing affordability.
“I’ve never experienced a festive season this difficult for us as individuals and as an organization,” said Tamisan Bencz-Knight, manager of strategic relationships and partnerships at Edmonton’s Food Bank, in an interview with CTV News Channel on Monday.
Currently, Edmonton’s Food Bank had to open up drive-through services in minus 40 degrees Celsius conditions due to demand.
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Rotary Jukebox
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Four-way Test
To close the meeting, an interesting group recitation from June, 2020, of the Four-Way Test of the things that Rotarians think, say, or do.
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